Will Cameron Diaz Ever Learn How to Keep It in Her Pants? First A-Rod. Now P-Diddy.

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Us Weekly said that Cameron Diaz, 39, "booty calls" Sean "Diddy" Combs, 42, "her on-and-off hookup since 2008."

Surprise, surprise, proving my last post about her correct, she was super "hands on" with Sean. They were spotted on October 24th nuzzling and "had their hands all over each other," an eyewitness said. Two weeks later, at a Nov. 11 lunch at Scarpetta in Beverly Hills, they were "making out, acting romantic," says a source. (Reps for both stars say Diaz and Combs, are "just friends" and meeting to discuss a possible comedy film project.)

Give me a break -- they're making out at lunch for all to see. These reps will sell themselves out and say anything so long as they're being paid. I'm not disillusioned about this, just disappointed.

Fyi Cameron, Sean's still dating his model girlfriend of three years, Cassie, 25. Maybe you know her... she sang "Me & U" and "Long Way 2 Go." Says a friend, "Diddy's single whenever there's a better offer on the table!"

Augh, can Cameron keep it in her pants just once? We all know that Sean is not exactly a man who exercises the best scruples. But, it doesn't mean that Cameron needs to stoop to his level. She always needs to touch a man and be on a highly sexualized hunt that smacks of desperation. Yet, not once has it ever worked in her favor. If anything, she embarrasses herself and ends up dumped because her high-profile boyfriends "want to work on their career and the distance drove them apart." Men don't take her seriously because they don't have to work for her.

Cameron says that she doesn't care about marriage, but what woman doesn't at least want the right of refusal? Women want the chance to have a man take them seriously and see them as the long-term relationship. Maybe they don't feel the same way, which is fine, but to continuously enter into relationships where you have no hand makes a woman like Cameron seem like a glutton for punishment.

Finally, a woman might like to think that she can booty call a man. That's a lie. He might let her think that she's in control, patiently awaiting her desperate text while he is at a club with another woman sitting on his lap. Then he runs to her hotel room so long as she's local and it's convenient. He didn't have to work for it and it's cheaper than a call girl. I'm not being bitter, it's the reality of how a woman can be used if she lets herself be.

So help her, though, if there is another woman who he likes more. She will stare at her phone, all night long, primping and preening, applying her tenth application of lip gloss, desperately awaiting his response. She awakens the next morning to the sad, sad truth that he doesn't want her. Even when he didn't have to work for it. Now, who played themselves with the "booty call?"

All in all, hold out for a date. There is no such thing as the woman having the upper-hand when it comes to sex. As Rules authors Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider say, no woman ever gives up sex for free. She always wants something more, even if it's the right to dump the man afterward.